Anonymous asked: Okay, I just saw the post I wrote about Jewish men, and it kind of looks like a bunch of drooling fetishization. I seem to have a kind of philo-Semitism, based on growing up around quite a few people who were both awesome and Jewish. I know the qualities I rhapsodized about do exist in many men of the tribe, and I combined them all to describe my dream Jewish guy, but what if I meet him and he's attracted to me for similar stereotypical reasons?
first of all jewish men being attracted to gentile women for “stereotypical reasons” is largely due to their dislike of jewish women. therefore stereotypes of gentiles only exist inasmuch as they are simply negatives: gentile women are just not jewish women—this is why jewish men like them. so you have to understand that male jewish desire for you comes about at the expense of jewish women. gentile women are trophies which represent successful assimilation. so you’ll have to make sure that, throughout your relationship with a jewish man, you don’t start to turn into fran drescher! apparently she’s just TERRIBLE.
secondly, would you want your ~dream jewish guy~ to read these posts and realize that he’s some construct of various desires—which he might not be able to live up to—rather than someone you grew to know and love? what if the roles were reversed? are you really not bothered when men talk about their ~ideal woman~?
grow up ffs.